However, before you get yourself into a sweat and endure countless numbers of sleepless nights, here are five things that you definitely shouldn't be worrying about:
That you put yourself before them every now and then
Babies thrive off routine and structure, especially when they are really young, but that doesn't mean you need to skip the lunch date with your friends simply because it falls around the time baby has a feed. Just do it before, after or during and don’t worry if you do break a little routine.
That you want to lounge in front of the TV
Many people think that once they have a baby they need to get up and do everything possible to improve their life and health. While it is a nice touch to learn something new like a musical instrument or try to boost your health by taking up running for the sake of your little one, it is ok to lounge in front of the TV every now and again.
That you aren’t losing the baby weight
Seriously this is something that you really shouldn’t stress over. Instead focus your attention on your baby and the rest will just work itself out. Every woman is different and while some lose the weight straight away other take a few months or even years.
That you enjoy spending time alone
Being a new mum doesn’t mean you have to simply give up your entire pre-baby life. It’s ok to enjoy spending time alone or with friends without your baby. In fact, it is good for you to go out, recharge your batteries and enjoy quality me-time. It doesn’t make you a bad mother but rather one who recognises that it is important to look after you.
That you are finding it really tough
Motherhood is probably one of the toughest jobs you will ever do, but many new mums feel like they need to hide the fact that they are struggling. It’s ok to find it tough, in fact, if you talk to your friends with kids or your own mum you will realise that they too struggled. Call on help if you need it.
