It sounds like a piece of cake, but enjoying an orgasm during sex is not something that every mum experiences.
While stress and exhaustion can make you less likely to climax, with our help you should be able to enjoy intimate times with your other half.
First things first, you need to learn to relax - you will struggle to enjoy any pleasure if your mind is elsewhere. Light candles or play some soothing music, anything that will help you get into the right frame of mind.
Tell them where to go
You need to have the confidence to be able to tell your other half where you want them to go and what you want them to do. While they might feel like they are doing a good job, how can they really know if you don’t tell them?
Help it along
Your partner can’t do everything at once, so while he is concentrating on one area, why not help things along by concentrating on another area yourself. For instance, your breasts are the perfect erogenous zone so play around with them while your other half gets busy elsewhere.
Try different positions
If it’s still not working for you try different positions. Don’t think of it as work, go with the flow and experiment with your significant other - you never, you might find something you really like!
Unlike men, a woman won’t orgasm without a little bit of work. Foreplay is your friend so spend a little time getting close with your other half.
Don’t stress about it
It is important you don’t stress about the possibility of not having an orgasm as it won’t help the situation. If it feels like you are taking a long time, just keep in mind that it takes a woman on average 20 minutes to climax.