I presumed that DD was staying in her cousin’s room and that the two girls were just sharing the bed as it’s a double. But she told me that she usually stays in the older brother’s room as he has a couch in his room that pulls out into another bed.
I feel really uncomfortable at the idea of those sleeping arrangements. We’ve raised her to see him as a cousin and they all get on really well, but at the end of the day, he’s not a blood relative and it just feels wrong that she would be sharing a room with him considering he’s a teenager.
I don’t know how to bring it up with his mum or my husband’s brother without sounding incredibly insulting or as if I'm accusing him of something, but if I feel this uncomfortable, there must be something wrong with the situation and my daughter is my first priority.
I haven’t said it to my husband yet, but I can’t imagine he’d be happy either. Does anyone have any advice so I can go to him with a plan when I do tell him?