We can all admit that we’ve all been dreaming about our wedding days since we were kids. We can’t help but think of what our dress will look like, who will be at the top of the aisle and what our first dance song would be.

 

One thing we hate to think of is our wedding day going wrong. When we think of that special day no negative thoughts enter our mind, however, sometimes things don’t always work out as we would like them to.

 

One woman has opened up about her disappointing wedding day, admitting that she’d love to go back in time and do it differently.

 

She wrote on Mumsnet: “It was a few years ago now. It took me about five months to even look at the photos.”

 

 

She explained that her dress didn’t suit her, she and her husband were forgotten about at the church and so many other things went wrong on their day.

 

“There are a lot more things. Basically, the whole event was a disaster,” she said.

 

We all want to have a perfect wedding just like Prince Harry and Meghan Markle did, and this woman is no different.

 

She said that even though five years have passed since she tied the knot, she can’t help but feel extremely disappointed when she thinks of her wedding day.

 

 

“I want to go back and do it again, our way. I wish I'd had it in a completely different, more chilled out way,” she wrote.

 

And just like many women, she knows exactly what her perfect wedding would be like, “I should have had a simple ceremony, in a registry office, wearing a dress of my choosing (probably a non-wedding one) and then all disappeared to a lovely local restaurant.”

 

What is really bothering her is the fact that she can’t do anything about it, and said she is aware that it’s a first world problem.

 

 

Mums quickly replied to her question as to whether her disappointment was reasonable or not, and many agreed that being happy in your marriage is way more important than having a lavish event.

 

One wrote, “Are you happy in your marriage? Because that's what really matters. Look forward and move on; maybe do something lovely as an anniversary treat?”

 

Others advised her to move on from the idea of a ‘perfect wedding’: “I think the problem is we’re conditioned to think our wedding days will be perfect and the best days of our lives and that's a lot to live up to. You should allow yourself a knowledge that some bits did go pear shaped but the ultimate outcome was you got married.”

 

What do you think? Is the woman being unreasonable?

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