All children have their own ways of studying; some find it hard to sit with a load of notes, while others may need background noise to help them focus. It is important to realise that even if your child is not revising in the conventional way, they are still learning.
Some children find it easier to learn by reading their school books, writing down notes and observing information. However, others find it helpful to absorb the information by listening to it. You may be able to buy MP3’s on the subject; alternatively, get them to record themselves reading out their notes. The ‘hands on’ approach is also another method that some people find very effective. This may involve them walking around as they read their notes out loud.
When it comes to studying with others, there can be both positive and negative sides to it. When alone, there is nothing to distract your kid from their work; however, there is nobody there to help if they get stuck either. Studying with another person means they can bounce ideas off each other, which may make it easier to learn. In order to ensure that they are doing homework and not messing, it is important that you find a middle ground. Let them revise with someone one or two days a week leaving the other days to do their work alone.
When your youngster is studying for a big test or exam, make sure they only do so for 45 minutes before taking a 15 minute break. Take away their mobile phone so they won’t be tempted or encourage them to switch it off until they are finished. Ensure your child is not spending hours and hours with their nose in a book. They need at least an hour everyday to take part in hobbies or to simply relax.
As their mum, it is vital that you make sure they are eating enough food and encourage them to write down any problems that may be nagging them.
It is really easy for kids to get stressed out, especially when preparing for big exams. Remember to check in on them every now and then to make sure they are not becoming overwhelmed.
