Imaginary friends can be a source of comfort for children going through a tough time, and they can even help them through a traumatic experience.
While kids can blame their own disobedience on their imaginary friend, they can help your little one explore their surroundings, cope with fear or even come out of their shell.
And while they can be confusing and even a little frustrating from a parents' point of view, it is important you handle and respond to it appropriately.
1. Ask questions about their friend
Just like you would a new classmate, ask your child to describe their imaginary friend including their interests, fears and wishes. Sometimes the answers can be an indication as to what is going on in your own child’s mind.
2. Don’t allow the imaginary friend’s ‘behaviour’ get out of control
It can be easy for kids to blame messes or disruptive behaviour on their imaginary friend, but it is important you don’t let them. An imaginary friend shouldn’t be there so that your child can get themselves out of trouble, so say things like “you both have to clean it up” or “I am asking you to do it – they’re your friend”.
3. Play along with it
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having an imaginary friend, so play along when your child offers you tea that their friend made or asks you to get an extra blanket so their friend isn’t cold at night.
