Kids are a funny bunch, and sometimes ask pretty embarrassing questions. However, not all of their questions are funny, some are pretty serious and it is important you answer them correctly.
Here are five questions they are likely to ask and how to answer them.
Will you die?
You provide your little one with security and the very thoughts of them losing you can be quite frightening – so it is important you are careful with your response. Without lying, try to reassure her that you will be around for a long, long time but that if something does happen name someone who will mind them. Time is a concept that most kids can’t grasp so this should ease their little fears for a good while.
Why does that person live on the street?
This is a sign that your child is becoming aware of their surroundings and noticing that not everybody has a home or job or money. When asked this, it is important you think carefully about your answer because your child can start to fear that this might happen to them. Talk about how not everybody is as lucky as them and how there are plenty of places that people can get help if they are ever stuck in a situation like that.
Why don’t we go on holidays like my friends?
This is really a question about money and so should be broached with caution, otherwise your little darling will end up telling the whole class all about your financial situation. Simply answer by saying that every family is different and some have experiences that others don't. Now is the time to reminisce on a family day out or a particularly fun day. It’s not the holiday they really feel they are missing out on, it’s more that they are missing out on something fun that all their friends get to do.
How did I get in your tummy?
You don’t need to go into detail about the birds and the bees, this is not the type of question they are asking. The question usually stems when a friend’s mum becomes pregnant and your little one is obviously curious about where they came from. Try to be honest without being too graphic. Think age appropriate – the older they are the more you should tell them.
Is Santa real?
Depending on how far you want to take the belief, this one can actually be pretty tricky. This question usually comes from the classroom where some kids believe and others don’t. If your child is having doubts, now is a good time to perhaps tell the truth, but it is entirely up to you and whether you think your child is ready to hear the truth.
