Looking up to big sis: is it normal that my...

Looking up to big sis: is it normal that my child admires so much?

It’s perfectly normal for toddlers who are nearing their second birthday to suddenly become absolutely fascinated by what older children are doing. Social development is very important for your toddler, and looking up to bigger kids is one of the signs that your child is progressing properly. You may notice your child trying to join in on older children’s games, or following an older sibling around.

Your child may be trying to gain the favour of other children by offering them their snacks or toys, and it’s around this age that your toddler begins actively trying to engage with other children.

A good idea is to stock up on toys, to minimise arguments over who’s toys are who’s. If your child loves cars or dolls, make sure there are more than one, so that everyone has one to play with.

Another good idea is to schedule play dates with other children for times when your toddler is well rested, and not hungry. Being tired or hungry will make most toddlers a little disagreeable, and that’s not fun for anyone!

More questions

How do I raise a bookworm?

The earlier you begin to encourage a love of reading in your child, the better.

My toddler is drooling and having trouble eating. Should I worry?

Drooling and difficulty eating can be associated with normal toddler behaviour, illness or sensory processes.

When does separation and independence occur in a child?

Up to the age of three, your toddler will be over separation anxiety. However, as there are so many separations in the years of growing up – pre-school, a few days away at camp, and even your child’s first year at college, bouts of separation anxiety could very well occur from time to time all through your child’s life.

How can I ensure that my toddler's motor development is on track?

As long as your toddler has plenty of space and time to play, and practice all their new physical skills, they’re probably doing just fine with her development!

How can I make sure that my child stays curious and interested in the world around him?

Toddlers are naturally curious about everything. Instead of stifling that curiosity, you should be making every effort to promote it!

Encouraging imagination and creativity: how do I do it?

Your child’s imagination is not only a source of fun – it’s one of his or her most important early learning tools.

I want my child to be in touch with her emotions. How can I ensure that she grows up that way?

Young children are emotional beings. The worst thing you can do is make them stifle those emotions. Teach them how to cope with them instead, and you’ll raise a well-adjusted child.

Encouraging spirituality: how can I make sure that my child grows up with a spiritual foundation?

If you want your child to grow up with a strong spiritual foundation, it’s never too young to start teaching, but remember to teach by example.